We just picked up a new '12 Crew this past Monday to replace our 4 year old Caliber, and love it. The interior is gorgeous/spacious and having the flexibility of the 3rd row seatin is fantastic. We had test driven both the Journey and the Caravan, and while they shared the same engine and other mechanicals, the journey won hands down. Like you, the one thing I didn't really care for were the Chrome 19's. I also tried to get them to drop that option, particularly when trying to find tires for them were like a treasure hunt (and an expensive one at that). I'm going to drop down to 17's when I get winter tires, and then start looking at 17's rims for the following spring.
Cheers!
Steph S.